A Saturday To Do

There are dishes in the sink and drinks on the kitchen counter. The Roomba is on, doing her thing around the house. Our “coconut and beeswax blend” candle is burning, wafting White Magnolia around the living room. The Spotify This is Kings Kaleidoscope playlist is playing quietly through the speakers. Daniel and I have been adding to our dry erase board to do list all week but for now, I would rather sit on the couch with Daniel sipping my Arbonne detox tea (and citrus energy fix stick – yum!) before tackling the day ahead.

We had our first bonfire last night, our first semi-housewarming party, and I’d say it went exceedingly well (aside from the humidity and the 86º at 9PM). Daniel did an A-MA-ZING job dreaming up the fire pit and putting so much hard work into it. It looks phenomenal. I love hosting and having everyone together at my home, laughing and being cared for. It was the perfect Friday night.

Hi, my name is Hailey and I’m an Enneagram 2.

I’m not sure how this weekend can compare to my productivity of last weekend. I finally tackled something that has been on my to do list since we moved in – paint the bathroom. Something had to be done, I was tired of taking a shower and opening the curtain to see the nicotine drips seeping from our walls had multiplied (cue the gagging). I scrubbed with TSP, rolled on a thick coat of Shellac Primer and painted three coats of the beautiful color Gale Force. While I’m all about painting every thing in my house white, I really loved the idea of a dark bathroom wall with white and gold accents – which is exactly what we did. I feel so accomplished and proud of my work (even though the ceiling needs a little touching up). The bathroom is far from complete, but I am very proud of the baby steps.

Putting my pride aside and posting these before pictures.

Today is expected to be another hot one – it’s only 10:30A and it’s already 85º. I cannot imagine being in our apartment and enduring this heat with no AC. (First world problems, I know, but also realizing even more how fortunate we are to have bought this house when we did.) I think I’ll tackle the linen closet in the bathroom – I bought clear organizers last weekend and I have been antsy to begin the process. Purging what we don’t use and making pretty – and accessible – what we do. After that, I plan to make a Home Depot run to pick up long wood planks and black piping to make my own sofa table (see below).

My dream entryway table for behind our couch. Stay tuned…

A Very June Update

I can’t believe I’ve let my blog sit for almost a good month without posting any updates! The good news is that I’ve been MIA for only good reasons. I’ve been nesting up a storm, decorating and redecorating the house.

Sadie got her wedding photos back and I am pretty much as excited as I was to get mine back. The love and the happiness and pure bliss show through every photo.

Literally the cutest venue to get ready in! #HomeGoals

We’ve been spending a ton of time together as a family and I’m not mad about it. The six of us (Jerod + Kenzie, Daniel + I, Sadie + Michael) went to Mount Olympus to ride rollercoasters and brave the wave pool and it was so much fun. I had never been to the Dells during the summer so I had only experienced the indoor water park but the roller coasters brought it to a whole new level. Afterward, we drove around looking for a dinner place and found the most amazing spot on the water. We sipped drinks and played bags while we waited for our table – the perfect pass time.

Jerod, Sadie and I planned a going away party for Kenzie (I’m not crying, you’re crying) and Daniel and I were able to host it! Hooray! We’re homeowners! We can host parties! With large groups of people! Not exactly Daniel’s favorite activity but definitely mine. Kenzie made a bomb charcuterie board and it was a great excuse for me to make sure the whole house was clean and vacuumed.

Last weekend, the six of us went up north to celebrate Kenzie’s second to last weekend in American before leaving for three years in Scotland. It was so. much. fun. having all of my favorite people in one place, my favorite place. On Saturday morning, we hiked to the waterfalls where Daniel popped the question – it was probably one of my favorite things, bringing my sisters to a place that held so much importance and happiness to me.

This upcoming week is the Fourth of July and while I am so excited to celebrate our Independence with my family, it will also be my last goodbye with Kenzie before she boards a plane to Scotland on Friday, July 5. I am so excited for her to live out her calling and spread the love of Jesus to the lost in the UK but I WILL MISS HER SO MUCH. Trying to not think about the distance or time before I see her again (her scheduled trip home is for Christmas). I love my family and I love this summer.

PSA to all my uninformed friends – THE HILLS IS BACK ON MTV 🎉 You’re welcome.

In The Sunshine State

This last week, Daniel and I checked out of our daily lives and flew to Florida for a much needed, relaxing break. I bought the tickets back in February when I was in a mid-snowstorm, WI-slump and I am so glad I did. This trip could not have come at a better time for both of us.

Our seven day vacation began with a five mile kayak trip down the Weeki Wachee River last Saturday. The natural, spring water was completely clear, a beautiful blue, and the sun felt amazing on our skin. The manatees had traveled to the Gulf since the water has been warming up so we weren’t able to see any of those, but we saw multiple schools of beautiful large and small fish. That night, we were sat at the perfect table on the water where I enjoyed Mahi Mahi tacos with mango salsa and sipped on watermelon mojitos. The next few days were a little more lax, hours spent at the pool under a hot, hot sun and an extremely high UV index.

Mid-week, Daniel surprised me with a drive into Tampa to a beautiful Spanish villa for my birthday. I had been feeling like my 25th birthday had been lost in the hustle and bustle of signing for our house on my birthday (not to sound ungrateful… I realize buying a house at twenty-five is an amazing birthday present) – little did I know, he’d had this getaway planned even before then. I highly enjoyed our California King bed, Daniel enjoyed the in-room jacuzzi and we relaxed guilt-free in our amazing room. We did walk down to the beautiful pool (mainly because I felt like we had to since it was there), but were quickly back upstairs to veg. Daniel read about half his book and I binged reality television. Win, win, win. We ordered pizza (I can’t remember the last time we did that), and after, Daniel announced he was starting a new hard-core eating plan the moment we get home.

The second half of the trip was a continuation of the first. Lots of sun, lots of suntan oil and a little suntan lotion obviously…even if it was only SPF 8. We stopped by Honeymoon Island on the drive home from our villa and walked up and down the beach instead of laying down towels. The sand was packed so we figured this would be the best way to soak in all the rays we could and avoid having to find a space to lay down our towels and then have to flip over. It’s the little things. All in all, the beach was beautiful. The umbrella’s were beautiful and colorful and scattered across the beach. I found a decent amount of shells (of course I stopped to pick them up) and tucked them into Daniel’s back pocket for safe keeping. I can’t wait to be back!

Home | Have Done’s and To Do’s

Owning a home is work. Like real WORK. And no, I’m not complaining about it – I actually really love it. But every night after work the last two weeks, Daniel and I have come home and immediately began our projects. I love that the house is coming together so quickly but I would also love a date night sometime soon (*Daniel, hint hint).

A collaborative list of everything we have accomplished this week:

  1. Cleaned and organized both closets; put the closet doors back up.
  2. Daniel finished all the blinds (kitchen, dining room, his music room, our room and the guest room).
  3. Cleaned out the garage and the basement – threw away all the random junk or leftover counter tops from when the seller redid the kitchen (I’m pretty sure our garbage men absolutely hate us because of the enormous pile we left for them last week and will be leaving again tomorrow – oops).
  4. Daniel hung the gallery wall (again) in the dining room (!!!)
  5. Unpacked all the leftover boxes and organized the misc items in the basement.
  6. Set up this BEAUTIFUL shoe cabinet that we picked up from IKEA after first service at church today.

What we have left to do:

  1. Figure out flooring and new counters for the kitchen.
  2. Redo the bathroom (at least flooring).
  3. Find the perfect rug for our bedroom (and maybe the guest room?).
  4. Decorate the living room. Somehow this has become the room with the least amount of work done since we moved in. We haven’t spent much time in this room since we’ve been really going-going-going after work. I foresee getting a lot done this week since the smaller projects are all done and we can relax a little after work.
  5. Take down the old entertainment center that’s taking up space in the garage – put out for our garbage men friends.

Re-Begin

I’m sitting here, typing from our house. Our H O U S E! We closed on Monday, May 6 – the best 25th birthday present I could have asked for. Since then, we have been over every day painting, wiping down, stripping wallpaper, vacuuming, sanding/staining floors. So much comes with owning a house (yes I knew that, yes I expected it)! I feel such a sense of peace and contentment now that we’re here. Now that the move is over, all of our belongings are in our home and knowing I get to live here and raise babies here. There is no moving in our future and that makes me very very thrilled.

I will be the first to tell you that I don’t do well with change. None of my family does – we hate it. I like my comfort, I like my routine. Moving into this house (while I already love it and look forward to nesting and making this home) has definitely put me in a little bit of a nervous state. A new neighborhood, a new route to work, new responsibilities. Now is as good a time as any and I am so thankful we were able to purchase this house before we bring little lives into the mix. I give major props to those lucky folks that move with children. Lord, bless it.

While yesterday was full of non-stop commotion from 7AM – 10PM, this morning we were able to make it to first service at church and then surprise Daniel’s mom for Mothers Day – all her kids celebrated with making her lunch, we brought her favorite drink, chocolate covered strawberries and pretty little roses. Next Saturday morning, we get to celebrate my mom with a family breakfast at Original Pancake House. I am secretly looking forward to the most – any excuse for chocolate chip pancakes is a good one for me.

Today, I am currently:

  1. Listening to Wildflowers by Tom Petty
  2. Drinking Pomegranate Lemonade
  3. Relaxing after celebrating Mothers Day
  4. Wishing for summer in this 53° WI weather
  5. Peeking over Daniel’s shoulder as he hangs the gallery wall (!!!)

The cutest keychain I bought here!

The New Mr & Mrs Schinker

Yesterday was one of my most favorite days. Ever. I got to watch my best friend marry her best friend and spend so much time feeling like a beauty queen surrounded by people I love.

The day started at 7:30a, bustling around the apartment gathering my last minute necessities before leaving for my 8:30a hair appointment, peach green tea with kombucha in hand. Afterward, I drove out to the Bowery Barn where the reception would be held to meet the other bridesmaids and have my (airbrushed 💁) makeup done at 10:35a. We listened to music, ate Cousins subs and touched up each other’s hair and/or makeup before a few bridal party photos, then carpooled in a caravan to church for the ceremony. Everything went so so smoothy, the music, the procession, the worship-filled ceremony, the photos after, the reception, the dj and dancing. AMAZING. A few photos were during the hour long snowstorm which were a sacrifice but I know will turn out so gorgeous. It was such a well planned, beautifully decorated, fun wedding that ended with a grand exit to dainty wands with pink and white streamers and bells as Sadie and Michael drove to their hotel before heading off to Costa Rica for a week early this morning.

3-Day Juice Cleanse

With few plans during the beginning of our week and warmer weather fast approaching, I figured this coming week would be the perfect time for a juice cleanse. I keep telling Daniel how much I’ve wanted to try one but I’ve never gotten around to it – either I haven’t had, or made, time to sit down and figure out the exact juices to make (which is necessary for me so I don’t cheat or completely fall off) or my schedule hasn’t been open enough to allow a 3-day uninterrupted cleanse. But here we are now and I have no excuses.

I’ll be rotating through these four juices during the three days so I (hopefully) don’t get too burnt out by the same-old-same-old. All of these detox drinks bring vital nutrients that I’m sure my body has been lacking, especially just coming out of a cold Wisconsin winter. I will say, though, Daniel and I juiced about fives times within the last six-months – we use this juicer and it is a-ma-zing. I’m sure we’ll juice a lot more this summer when it’s warmer and the fruit is riper. Hello, Famers Markets!

Green Detox

  • 1 whole cucumber
  • 1 bunch of kale
  • 2 green apples
  • 4 stalks of celery
  • 1/2 lemon
  • 1″ piece of ginger

Red Detox

  • 2 beets
  • 2 Honey Crisp apples
  • 2 carrots
  • 2 lemon
  • 1″ piece of ginger

Orange Detox

  • 2 large carrots
  • 1 Honey Crisp apple
  • 15 oz pineapple
  • 2 pears
  • 1″ piece of ginger

Ginger Detox

  • 1″ piece of ginger
  • 3 green apples
  • 2 stalks of celery
  • 1 cup of kale
  • 1 cucumber
  • 1 lemon (peeled)

Beginning: My body feels tired, even before my (almost daily) two-mile runs. I feel like I regularly need to take mental health breaks on the weekend to decompress and rejuvenate. I feel bloated almost constantly, and not just around my cycle. My food cravings are constant and if snacks are sitting out, I’ll pick one out even if I’m not hungry. I’m not the best with self control when it comes to food so hopefully this little reset helps!T

During: I feel crabby. Maybe it’s withdrawls from food or sugar? I am hungry almost constantly and honestly look forward to going to sleep so I can wake up and have another glass of juice. My favorite juices hands down are the Orange and the Red Detox. I use the Orange as an afternoon pick-me-up (the Ginger for breakfast and Green for mid-morning snack). The Red Detox is my favorite so I have that for dinner. I look forward to 2PM-8PM the most so I can have my favorite juices. Is that a sad way to look at this? I’ve ran 2-miles the last two days and still had the energy to do that so I’m not feeling too lethargic from not having food.

After: So. I did it. It was a CHALLENGE. I was moody, I was hungry. I read a few reviews and people said they felt their mind was clearer after and to be honest, I’m not sure I really felt that. Maybe I wasn’t giving myself enough juice at a time – I had 16oz glasses at a time – but all in all, I dropped 9lbs (just in time for Sadie’s wedding) and definitely felt less bloated and tummy troubles associated with food. I don’t know if I would ever implement another 3-day cleanse into my life but I am looking forward to doing a 1-day cleanse probably every month, just for a detox and reset.

House Update

Today is sunny which is such a nice change from the snow and rain we had to endure earlier this week. We’re currently sitting by the window in Caribou, I’m sipping a warm chai tea while Daniel’s enjoying his favorite, an iced mocha. We’re waiting for our apartment showing to finish with nervous anticipation. Having these showings means we are forced to clean the apartment, which we love to reap the benefits of. The downside is having to set an alarm on Saturday mornings in order to clean the apartment and get out by the time the landlord shows up.

Everything for the house has been going smoother than we thought it would. Or at least than I thought it would. The inspection was Wednesday and the inspector had nothing but good things to say – we were forwarded the results that night and our realtor said it was the cleanest review he’s gotten on a house this old. (Bless 🙌 .) The inspector recommended we replace the kitchen-to-garage door with a fire door, fix the leaky bathroom sinks and put up hinged-drywall over the exposed attic entrance in the garage. We’re requesting a credit from the seller for the higher radon levels the basement tested at and will do the work ourselves to mitigate the basement (or however that works).

I am hopeful everything goes smoothly with this little transaction of ours and we can close May 6. That would be the best twenty-fifth birthday present I could ask for. I have been so so excited to just make this house our home – to settle. Since I moved out of my parents’ house in 2014 at the age of twenty, I have moved five times and my spirit feels a sense of unrest. As soon as I’ve gotten settled into one home, a roommate’s gotten married, or I’ve gotten married and our lease has been broken and I’ve had to pack up, move and readjust to a new normal. Now I know 95% of this moving was self-induced, but I cannot wait to have a home and the reassurance that I will be there for years and years to come.

Our Next Steps…

The rain is falling lightly beyond the open patio door and Nova is curled in her usual spot beside me on the couch. Indie-folk melodies swirl around the apartment. The flowers we were given with our grocery pick-up are a nice spring-touch on our dining room table. Fake or not, I think they’ll stay for a while. Everything is calm; like the calm before a storm. But a very, very good storm.

Nothing about mine and Daniel’s relationship has gone slow, let alone at a normal pace. He popped the question in June 2018 and we were married in October of that same year. We have been in our cozy little white apartment from then until now, in April, when we already have an accepted offer on a house. When Daniel gets an idea in his head, he has a hard time sitting still until the idea becomes a reality. And I love that about him. I might dream and make goals but I struggle with the follow through, especially if it seems “hard”. I don’t like typing that out but it’s the truth. With Daniel, he thrives off the “hard” stuff – he needs to push himself in order to not become bored or idle in life.

I am equally as excited as I am nervous about our house journey. I already have vision boards of how we are going to make this new house our home. Repaint the 70’s pastel pink and blue tile in the bathroom, IKEA light fixtures in the dining room… I have nervous butterflies even putting words together for this post. The inspection is scheduled for Wednesday at 3PM and I am praying everything goes smoothly and my anxious nerves can all transition into pure excitement. If everything goes as we hope, we’ll close on May 6 – the best twenty-fifth birthday present I could ask for. I’ll admit, I will miss this cozy white apartment and the memories we’ve made here the last six months as husband and wife but I am so. ecstatic. for what is to come; the people that we’ll love on in our home, the meals we’ll cook in our kitchen and serve around our table, the bonfires in our huge backyard and the babies that we will bring through the door, into our home.

More butterflies.

Weekending

Last weekend we threw Sadie a bridal shower. Nothing huge, nothing fancy but so so beautiful and special. I loved watching her face light up with every new face that came through the door. We ate a-ma-zing quiche, drank punch with fresh raspberries and smiled so much my cheeks cramped by noon. I love decorating for parties so that may have been my favorite part. Sadie and Michael really are best friends, which was so obvious in the game we played. Before the shower, I had to ask Michael a series of questions about Sadie. During the shower, as in in front of everyone, I asked Sadie the same questions to see how many Michael answered correctly. To see how well he knows her. They had the same answer to every question but one (which she eventually got with minimal hinting). All in all, it was so special and sweet. Less than 32 days until she’s a MARRIED woman!

A few hours later, I met up with the Kerlin ladies for a painting class at Arté in the Tosa Village (highly recommend for anyone in the Milwaukee area). The instructor-led class was a stretch for my non-artistic self but it was so. much. fun. Two hours and two glasses of cabernet later, our paintings were complete. The acrylic sunset was dreamy but the Adirondack chair was definitely lacking.

Yesterday, Daniel and I sipped coffee and lazily dreaming up renovations for when we become homeowners which may be closer than we think. At 11, we met with our realtor for two house showings. We were equally excited as we were nervous; the first two houses we were interested in had accepted offers by the time our realtor was able to contact the sellers. We got the pre-approval email this past Wednesday and since then, Daniel has been scouring Zillow, Shorewest, Realtor.com, you name it. I have been equally as busy… on Pinterest. We have already decided on flooring from Home Depot and settled on a large farmhouse sink. I can’t wait to start these projects together and I am excited to make a house our home. But, first things first. 11AM we met with Patch (our realtor), Daniel’s parents’ and my mom to walk through the two potential homes – which turned out to be complete duds… but exciting to look through nonetheless! I think this is the most impatient I’ve seen Daniel (he just wants a house with a yard) but I really love how he’s taken initiative and done all the pre-approval work. I haven’t had to so much as bat an eye. I told him the other night, “This whole process was a lot easier than I had thought!” And he kind of laughed. “Easy? I’ve had to send so many emails and do so much paperwork!” Praise for a man who handles all that – I wouldn’t have had the first idea where to start.

Today we took a mental health day – stayed home from church (we’ll catch up via podcast before small group Wednesday), slept in, made a late brunch and went hiking, again at our wedding venue. We didn’t have a timeframe or distance in mind so we just went until we were tired. Which meant a little over an hour and four miles later, we found our way back to the car. The sun was shining the whole time and the snow has all melted. Spring is coming and I couldn’t be happier about the changing season. This winter wasn’t as bad for me as the previous have been and for that I am thankful. I’ve noticed, at least lately, that I think I take life too seriously. I need my apartment clean, I need to make a home cooked meal every night for my husband, my hair needs to look great and I need to be healthy, healthy, healthy. I put too many expectations on others, especially Daniel and even more-so on myself. Trying to allow myself grace to let go and enjoy being almost-twenty-five before the real life starts and I crave the younger days.